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Online dating is a place to understudy some one to know who they are, what they do, how they function and their direction in life. The decision to be committed to this individual materially must come out of your understanding gotten in the dating process.

Online dating is not a place for impressing any one but a place to be honest about who you are and what you represent or stand for in life. Whoever wants you must align to these tips about your self or must let you be. Online dating is not a place to fit into what you want others want you to be but a place to accept your self the way you are and see whose personality aligns to your kind of person.

During online dating, if you want the truth, you have to be truthful. Don't rush or force some one to like you. The fact you desire this person, does not mean you must win them over. It's okay to be interested in some one and don't beg any one to be interested in you. Don't commit your time and emotions to this person if he or she has not shown interest in you too.

I am interested in you is a declaration of desire. Until he or she treats you in a way that makes you a priority, don't believe Him or Her. If he or she is interested in you, he or she will communicate, creates time for you, seek to know you and how you function and respects you. If he or she is interested in you, wait and observe; if the way he or she treats and talks to you does not reflect what he or she profess, it is not real.

Online dating is not the problem. The problem is the motives of people. Get the right motive and online dating becomes an opportunity to a healthy Godly marital destiny.

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