Genesis 5:1-2.  1.  This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day that God created man, in the likeness of God made he him; 2  MALE and FEMALE created he them; and blessed them, and called their name ADAM, in the day when they were created. FEMALE God has a SPECIFIC PLAN , PURPOSE , VISION and ASSIGNMENT for the FEMALE gender. The FEMALE is a capacity for support and suitable help. God blessed the FEMALE and command her to be fruitful “as a SUITABLE HELPER ” to her generation. The FEMALE were not created by God for marriage alone; they were created for a DIVINE ASSIGNMENT . The Lord created the FEMALE with the capacity and for a SPECIFIC ASSIGNMENT . Before any FEMALE in CHRIST should think and expect RELATIONSHIP , - think on the ASSIGNMENT that created your existence. God created the FEMALE for a SPECIFIC PURPOSE . God created the FEMALE for a SPECIFIC ASSIGNMENT . Any FEMALE in CHRIST must seek through the HOLY SPIRIT t...

Genesis 5:1-2.  This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day that God created man, in the likeness of God made he him; 2  MALE and FEMALE created he them; and blessed them, and called their name ADAM, in the day when they were created. God’s kingdom is our source and our family. We have being adopted into Gods kingdom through the death and resurrection of our Lord Jesus. God’s kingdom is a kingdom of LOVE because God is LOVE . LOVE is the kingdom, a platform for fellowship, RELATIONSHIP and teamwork. Adam is the blue print concerning Gods PLAN for RELATIONSHIP . Adam is the total sum of man-kind or humanity ( MALE and FEMALE ). The MALE and FEMALE God called “Adam.” God’s intention is for the MALE and the FEMALE to co-operate in fulfilling PURPOSE according to His PLAN s.  In Genesis 5:1-2, God blessed the MALE and the FEMALE . The mandate of being fruitful was also given to the MALE and the FEMALE . In the place of Gods PLAN – the MA...

Christians love to talk about sex. No, let me clarify. Christians love to HEAR and LEARN about sex. Talking about it, well that’s rather “worldly”, and not to mention – very uncomfortable. Yet as uncomfortable as some circles have made it, the truth is, people want to know about sex! We’re wired that way. It’s rather telling that some of my most popular and most shared articles center around this very topic. And call me crazy, but it seems like no coincidence that I get the most ridiculous amount of emails in my inbox and private messages through Facebook and Twitter within 24 hours of writing an article about sex. Sex. It’s what people want to know about. To understand. To learn about. Sex. It’s a topic that’s been shied away from within the body of Christ, often hidden behind closed doors. Sex. It’s designed by God, made for His glory, and gifted to His people!  Let’s get started. Let’s talk about sex.   If you come from a Christian community or ...

1. Waiting is ALWAYS worth it, but not for the reasons we think: We often tell young men and women that they need to wait until marriage to enjoy sex, but fail to tell them why, or make them think that virginity is the one and only key to a fulfilling sex life come wedding night. But none of those things are the REASONS we wait. We don’t wait so that we can we can have an evening of ecstasy on our honeymoon night (because trust me…that’s RARELY the case) . We wait because through the process of waiting our relationship is built, our trust is strengthened, and our commitment to one another is tried, tested, and refined. We wait because through the process of waiting, we learn discipline, self-control, reverence for the sacred. We wait because it’s an act of worship and obedience, to a God who knows exactly how we’re wired, what we need, and what is best for our lives. Our waiting is an act of trusting….and trusting God always leads to greater things (INCLUDING greater sex along the...

Q: Is it okay to stay friends with an ex? A: We’ve all seen it happen. Maybe we’ve even been through it. Boy meets girl. Boy likes girl and girl likes boy back. Boy and girl date. Things don’t work out. Boy and girl breakup. Boy and girl feel hurt. And in order to try make it feel less painful, boy and/or girl suggests: let’s stay friends. While it may seem like a noble suggestion, let me be blatantly honest here….I know very FEW (if any) situations in which staying friends with an ex proved to be beneficial. In fact, most of the time, it’s the exact opposite: risky. Usually, one of two things tends to happen when an ex boyfriend/girlfriend try to “stay friends”. 1. You fall back into a romantic relationship (the exact one that didn’t work out to begin with). When two people decide to break up, there’s usually a good reason. In most cases, something didn’t work out or maybe something was lacking in the relationship that led you to that decis...

Friendship, Relationship, Marriage and fatherhood have both taught me a lot about the importance building great relationships, and what it truly means to establish ones that thrive rather than run dry and fade away. I want my family to create meaningful relationships with people that will stand the test of time, not crumble during times of pain and uncertainty. Throughout the Bible, we see Jesus cultivating relationships with all different types of people from all different types of backgrounds. He did this by doing four key things: listening well, loving well, serving well and forgiving well. Jesus is the ultimate example of a great relationship maker, and I think applying these four keys will help you establish long-lasting connections. 1. Listen Well Anyone who has been married for any amount of time will tell you that there is a big difference between hearing someone and listening to them. And even though I’ve been at fault for this more times than I’d love to admit, the d...

Where is LOVE? LOVE is in you! – Romans 5:5. LOVE is the Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ who is at work in you. LOVE is the Holy Ghost that dwells within you When can you experience LOVE? When you stop believing what you see, feel and touch above what the word of God says about you. When you choose to believe God’s word – Jeremiah 31:3 – Proverbs 23:7 LOVE is not only for dating. LOVE is for every daily activity of your life. It’s in the way you think, attitude, talent, creativity, skills and manner of approach. It’s in the way you treat your brothers and sisters. It’s in the way you treat you class mate and school mate. It’s in the way you make friends and the motive behind you making friends. From age 13 to 22, you ought to use this season of your life to discover the purpose and plan of God for your life. Within this time frame you should be able to define your direction in life ad destiny. You should be able to know what is expected of you by the Lord. This stage of...

I commend you to the Holy Spirit and God’s word to help you to discover and learn all that God has proposed you to learn and discover in Jesus Name. Our topic for today is LOVE IS ME. Our case study is Genesis 1:26 – 28 and I John 4:8 – 16 What is LOVE? LOVE is not a feelings but it feels. LOVE is not a song but you can compose a song for it. LOVE is not a pit you can fall into (falling in LOVE). LOVE is a living, a lifestyle, a culture, and has a specific desire. Why is LOVE needed? LOVE is needed for a specific purpose, plan, calling and an assignment from the heart beat of God Himself. This is needed for a constant growth, improvement, re-positioning and adjustment from immaturity into maturity. LOVE is needed for the discovering of your self. She is need for self development. She is needed for the discovery of talent, ideas, and creativity. She is needed for destiny. She is need for purpose and you becoming all that God has created you to be. LOVE is needed...