- You can be a great father to your children and fail as a husband to your wife. - You can be a great husband to your wife and fail as a father to your children - You can be a great wife to your husband and fail as a mother to your children. - You can be a great mother to your children and fail as a wife to your husband. - You can be a great ministers of God, or business person and fail in your marriage. THE END GOAL OF ALL THESE IS BE THE BEST IN ALL FACE OF LIFE. Growing up in life you might have experienced one of these below - You either had a loving father but had a mother that doesn't care about you. - You either had a loving mother but had a father that doesn't care about you. - You either had an absent father or absent mother or absent parents. NEVER JUDGE YOUR PARENTS BECAUSE YOU DONT HAVE THE FULL STORY OF WHAT HAPPENED TO THEM... Many parents suffered emotional Trauma and fights beyond their control...children don't have a clue about ...