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DON'T DATE TO MARRIAGE. DATE TO UNDERSTAND.

Love is a culture of respecting human relationship. Don't date to marry. Ladies, be friendly to learn the nature of men and how men thinks. Stop blaming men for being men because you think men should think like ladies. Men, stay out of the emotional zone and learn to know how ladies think. If we don't stop idolizing marriage and dating by paying attention to learn and understand gender differences and uniqueness, we will fail the next generation. My sister, aside what your fellow sisters told you about men, who is a man really? My brothers, aside what your fellow brothers told you about ladies, who is a lady really? Its time to learn and be wise. There is even a problem when men don't even know what it means to be a man. We have a confused generation but there is a solution. We must return to the manufacturer which is God to re-introduce to us, who man is. The expectations of people, our selves, and the society have set a pace to be pursued but it's not the original blu...

Love is the Fruit.

Love is the reality of the fruit cultivated from God's Word. Without the Word of God, you won't be able to yield the fruit of the Spirit. And love is the first Expression of God's Nature in you. Love is God. God do not have love. He is love personified and if you abide in Him you will definitely manifest love. Love is the outpouring of God's personal dealings with you. It is a lifestyle of treating people the way God shown you acceptance. Love is extending to others all Christ have done for you and all He is doing in you. Abstaining from the presence of God or your personal dealing with God cripples your ability you yield the fruit of the Spirit. The bible said, and the fruit of the Spirit IS love, joy.. etc. The bible did not say, the fruit of the Spirit ARE. IN LOVE, every other fruit of the Spirit resides or dwells. Love is the multi dimensional nature of God's Nature. In love dwells Joy, kindness, self control, peace and all the other fruit of the spirit. Prince...

The Danger of Gossip

Love Culture: A healthy human relationship is a necessity that must be embrace. This is God's plan for our lives. It has everything to do with your Faith in Jesus. One of the major target of the enemies is to break the bond of fellowship, relationship, and family through the influence called GOSSIP. Gossiping can manifest through jealousy, finding fault or greed. People gossip about people just to disadvantage them. Even if the gossip is true, having the mind to expose your fellow humans weakness is a sign you lack honour. Any fault you find in any one, and you can't help through advice or prayerful intercession is the kind of one you must keep your mouth shut. Stop contributing to conflicts, and division among humans. If you are not willing to be part of the solution, don't be involved at all. Let's support each other and let's use our individual strength to compliment each other. No body knows it all and no body have it all. Our differences is supposed to bond us....

The Image of Relationship

Relationship is the agreement between two or more people to cooperate together and achievement a common goal. It is the lifeline for every creature on it. Relationship wires the animal kingdom, technology, humans, divinity and all phase of life. The Heavens and the Earth depends on Relationship to function accurately. Even God can not operate outside the frame called RELATIONSHIP. Relationship can not function without a defined aim or goal. There is no aimless relationship. Every relationship is active and it's either taking some thing from you or it is adding some thing to you. No form of relationship comes into your space and leave without leaving an impact. Your rise and fall in this generation is hundred percent dependent on the nature of relationship you have cultivated or the ones you abandoned. Relationship is a lifestyle, a culture, and a goal that must be future related and fruitful to the present realities. Relationship is not about dating and marriage alone, it's in ...

LOVE IS NOT GREEDY

Love Culture: Love does not operate in isolation. The language of love is teamwork!!! Love is not selfish...the strength of love is protecting yourself alongside with others. Love does not find fault but acknowledge faults and then find a way to assist for growth Love is a living and a lifestyle of teamwork, cooperation and partnership. Love is not a dreamless adventure but a dream conscious and solution oriented adventure. Love is not for showing off but a call to serve others to become better. This is a lifestyle bringing out the best in you just as Christ is bringing the best out of you. Any relationship that discourages you from studying your Bible and respecting elders is not Godly. Love does not understand greed for greed is a poison to love. Love shares and so humble to ask for help. The effort to build intimacy with any human by abandoning your relationship with Christ is frustration...that's not relationship. Relationship is not just about dating and marriage. It is in the...

What is Relationship?

Relationship is not just about dating, courtship and marriage. Relationship is every thing around you....you and your siblings...you and your parents....you and the taxi driver.....you and friend....you and clothes...etc. Relationship is all about how you handle and treat things and people. Do you have a good relationship with your shoes...? Do you take care of them? Do you have a relationship with your talent? When last did you upgrade your knowledge about your talent? Do you have relationship with your body? Do you easily notice any thing going wrong on or in your body? Relationship is with things and people. How do you treat people and things around you? Is it with respect and understanding or you do what you like, say what you like or make decision without being considerate about the well-being of the things or people around you?  Its your responsibility to cultivate a healthy relationship with the things and people around you. You need people and people needs you. This is the ...

Keep Your Faith

It is natural for you to seek for approval, attention, listen ears, love and affection from people at this period of life but I do not want you to compromise your faith and trust in God in the process. Don’t sell your birthright. You are God’s kingdom, and you are Royal in Christ. Do not expect everybody to love or like you. You are the light of God to the world and darkness will surely hate you. Those God has set around you to listen, love and show affection to you will do that naturally. It is free, and you do not have to dress almost naked or abuse your priority just to fit into what people demands from you. You need to be yourself, be Godly, and be original in the area of God’s plan for your life. God’s people will love and respect you for who you truly are and even if you are not experiencing it presently, keep your faith in God and focus on God’s plan for your life. Value, respect, and celebrate yourself in your God. There is nothing wrong with you. Your height, your complexion, ...