I want you to understand that the beauty and strength of your salvation is in how you can cultivate healthy friendship with people. I don't care if you speak fire and cast out demons. The test of your salvation is in your  ability relate with people in humility, truth and love. Do you know you will give account to the Lord on the judgement day for how you treat the people in your life?  Either they are wrong or right. Either they are your enemies or not. It's your responsibility to treat people with love and respect. Your heavenly father cause rain to fall on the righteous and the unrighteous. Your heavenly father makes the sun and moon to shine of the righteous and the unrighteous. If you are born of God then you will still respect and be polite With even an unbeliever.  Don't use your righteousness as a weapon against an unbeliever. Don't use your strength to judge People . Your strength and righteousness is given to you by God for worship and imp...

LOVE IS A PERSON !  Don't think love is about feelings or emotions. Love is a person for God is love. You need to start  approaching love as a person. Christ in you is love manifested. If you abide in God; you become love to this generation. Love is you.  LOVE IS A PERSON.   LOVE IS A MINDSET/THINKING PATTERN .   As you think in your heart, so you will become. There is a specific way to think that will yield love. You can't think any how and experience love. You must think according to the pattern of the person of love (God). If you think as God think, you will love as God love. Love is a mindset.  LOVE IS AN ATTITUDE  . What you think is what you will manifest as attitude. You can be love personified, think love and attitude greed, lies, hatred or ungodly attitude. If truly you think love, then you will attitude love. Don't just tell people you love them. Don't just think about how you love people. YOU MUST TREAT THEM WITH LOVE AND IN L...

Beloved of God I want you to understand God's principle for relationship.   The strength of any kind of relationship is not just communication ; its in how you communicate. The understanding of any relationship is not in communication alone; its in you understanding how to communicate.  Listening is part of communication because without a listening attitude communication will be abused!  In communication, you must give attention to the TONE of the voice involved in the conversation. This is very important because the tone of the voice behind every conversation holds the understanding needed for love to flow naturally.   Either listening or talking, give attention to the TONE of voice you listen to or the TONE of voice you use in communicating.  Communication is very important in every relationship. WHAT  you are saying is different from HOW   you are saying what you are saying.   in every conversation, you must be c...

Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man. Colossians 4:6 KJV In love and relationships, words are so powerful because they determine the healthy or unhealthy state of the relationship. Words or communication is the life or the blood of every level of relationship. God is so interested is us as an individual to have healthy relationship with the people surround us.  Either it's a platonic or romantic relationship, God is so concerned about the nature or kind of words we use to asking question and in answering question.  As believers, the prove of your personal relationship with the Lord is in how good you are in relating with the people around you. Anger is not an excuse. Like our text for this post, the bibles stated that LET YOUR WORDS BE ALWAYS WITH GRACE. My brothers and sisters, how gracious are you words? Is it only gracious when you are happy and abusive when you are angry or being off...

In love and relationship, forgiveness and reconciliation is the major strength. I want to set a balance to this issue of forgiveness because; many people are using scriptures as an excuse for justifying their weaknesses. God spoke about the offender and the offended in the bible. My assignment in this post is to set a balance between the offender and the offended. Please, read carefully! Mr. & Miss. Offended. I know what it hurts and I have also suffered in some percentage the pain of people hurting me. Being offended is not some thing to expect but some times in love and relationship, you will get it from people unexpected. I want you to remember how much God has loved and forgiven you for your mistakes and faults. You need to understand the abundance of the love and the forgiving Grace of the Lord upon your life. This is the first thing I want you to recognize. God loves you and He has forgiven you of any mistake or faults in your life. It’s important you realize that God ...

We live in a society where every people are seeking for security. Security is a great asset to any thing that is worth protecting. Your heart and relationship is not an exemption of this need (security). Lack of security or the uncertainty has increased fear among youths and teenagers. Love and Relationship has now become a world of threat. This is an error that must be corrected.  There is a way to fire prove your heart and relationship and this is what this post is set to reveal to you. The fire in this contest is heartbreak. Heartbreak happens because people don’t know how to fire prove their relationship. Conflicts are the not major cause of heartbreak in relationships. The major cause of heartbreak in relationship is lack of fire prove. They have not set up a security system to preserve their heart and relationship. No body can fire prove your heart and relationship; you are the only one responsible for it. One thing I have realized is this; your inabilities to fire prov...

Heartbreak is not your enemy. Men are not wicked and ladies are not heartless. We suffer daily only because we refuse to sit, think, and learn. In the world of love and relationship, if you don’t learn how to earn your faults and mistakes, you will never escape the world of heartbreak. Heartbreak is the discipline reserved for people who hates to learn and accept correction. The prison is not the problem of law breakers. The major problem of law breakers is their unwillingness to learn from their mistakes, and become a better person. That’s the same situation when it comes to heartbreak.  Heartbreak is one of the most painful but necessary experience needed for youths to become more responsible, and accountable. Experiencing heartbreak does not imply you are immature; you becoming isolated, unforgiving, and bitter after heartbreak means you are immature.  Youths and even teenagers hates heartbreak but that is wrong. If you are not a thief, will you be scared of the p...