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The Strength of Relationship

Beloved of God


I want you to understand God's principle for relationship.  

The strength of any kind of relationship is not just communication ; its in how you communicate. The understanding of any relationship is not in communication alone; its in you understanding how to communicate. 

Listening is part of communication because without a listening attitude communication will be abused! 

In communication, you must give attention to the TONE of the voice involved in the conversation. This is very important because the tone of the voice behind every conversation holds the understanding needed for love to flow naturally.  

Either listening or talking, give attention to the TONE of voice you listen to or the TONE of voice you use in communicating. 

Communication is very important in every relationship. WHAT  you are saying is different from HOW   you are saying what you are saying.  

in every conversation, you must be careful of the "choice of words" that you use in communicating with people.

Your world is different from the world of other people. Your jokes might be insult in other people's ear. What's normal to you might be a miracle to other people.

Don't use your experience to judge other people and also expect them to understand you.

In communication, you must find a common ground between you and people. You must understand their own world and relate with them according to the language of their heart.

Communication is not yet communication until understanding is revealed. 

The two enemies of communication is "assumption and presumption"

Love is you! 
Love is Christ at work in you.
love without communication is like your body without bone.

Be inspired! 

Shalom!

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