In the journey of relationships, honesty is not just a virtue but a fundamental principle that shapes the foundation of genuine connections. When we choose to deceive or mislead others, especially in the initial stages of getting to know someone, we sow seeds of frustration and discord that inevitably lead to a harvest of pain and regret. Whether you are asking a lady out for a relationship or making efforts to get to know someone who interests you, remember that honesty is the cornerstone of authentic communication. The cost of lying, even if it seems small or insignificant at the time, can have long-lasting consequences that impact both parties involved. As disciples of Jesus, let us embody the values of truthfulness and integrity in all aspects of our lives, including our relationships. Let us strive to be transparent and genuine in our interactions, knowing that honesty not only fosters trust and respect but also lays the groundwork for meaningful and lasting connections. So, let u...

In the tapestry of life, social class is just one thread. Remember that every individual carries a story, struggles, and dreams. Challenge stereotypes and seek to understand others beyond their socioeconomic status. Engage in conversations with people from various backgrounds, fostering empathy and broadening your perspective. Recognize that success is not solely defined by material wealth. People's worth extends far beyond their financial standing. Acknowledge the resilience, intelligence, and unique qualities each person possesses. Celebrate diversity and appreciate the richness it adds to our shared human experience. Educate yourself about the systemic factors that contribute to social inequalities. By understanding the roots of disparities, you can actively contribute to creating a more just and equitable society. Advocate for social change, challenge discriminatory practices, and support initiatives that promote equal opportunities for all. Develop a genuine curiosity about ot...

Transfer aggression in a relationship refers to the phenomenon where an individual redirects their anger or frustration from one source onto their partner or another person in the relationship. This behavior can have several future effects on the dynamics and well-being of the relationship. 1. Communication Breakdown:    Transfer aggression often leads to a breakdown in communication. When one partner consistently channels their negative emotions onto the other, it creates a hostile environment, hindering open and honest communication. Over time, this can erode the foundation of trust and understanding within the relationship. 2. Resentment and Emotional Distance:   Constantly being the target of transferred aggression can foster resentment in the victimized partner. This resentment may lead to emotional distance as the affected individual withdraws to protect themselves from the ongoing negativity. This emotional distance can strain the intimacy and connection between pa...

Love is solution-oriented. If you are not solving any problem with the love you have for this person, then you are confused. What problem has your love for this person solved so far? Think! The fact you desire to love someone does not mean you can love this person. Loving someone comes with a price tag; it comes with accepting this person and his or her dream and contributing to their personal growth and the growth of their dream. The best way to love a lady is by using your dream or calling to impact or cultivate her life and her dream. The best way to submit to a man is to give him access to all you know and have for the survival of his dream. In other to love some one completely, you must accept their past, value their present status, and believe in the future ahead of this person. Without these, it's impossible to love this person. Love is not blind because God is not blind. God is love. The first check before you decide to commit to someone maritally is to check their directio...

Genesis 5:1-2.  1.  This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day that God created man, in the likeness of God made he him; 2  MALE and FEMALE created he them; and blessed them, and called their name ADAM, in the day when they were created. FEMALE God has a SPECIFIC PLAN , PURPOSE , VISION and ASSIGNMENT for the FEMALE gender. The FEMALE is a capacity for support and suitable help. God blessed the FEMALE and command her to be fruitful “as a SUITABLE HELPER ” to her generation. The FEMALE were not created by God for marriage alone; they were created for a DIVINE ASSIGNMENT . The Lord created the FEMALE with the capacity and for a SPECIFIC ASSIGNMENT . Before any FEMALE in CHRIST should think and expect RELATIONSHIP , - think on the ASSIGNMENT that created your existence. God created the FEMALE for a SPECIFIC PURPOSE . God created the FEMALE for a SPECIFIC ASSIGNMENT . Any FEMALE in CHRIST must seek through the HOLY SPIRIT t...

Genesis 5:1-2.  This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day that God created man, in the likeness of God made he him; 2  MALE and FEMALE created he them; and blessed them, and called their name ADAM, in the day when they were created. God’s kingdom is our source and our family. We have being adopted into Gods kingdom through the death and resurrection of our Lord Jesus. God’s kingdom is a kingdom of LOVE because God is LOVE . LOVE is the kingdom, a platform for fellowship, RELATIONSHIP and teamwork. Adam is the blue print concerning Gods PLAN for RELATIONSHIP . Adam is the total sum of man-kind or humanity ( MALE and FEMALE ). The MALE and FEMALE God called “Adam.” God’s intention is for the MALE and the FEMALE to co-operate in fulfilling PURPOSE according to His PLAN s.  In Genesis 5:1-2, God blessed the MALE and the FEMALE . The mandate of being fruitful was also given to the MALE and the FEMALE . In the place of Gods PLAN – the MA...

Amos 3:3. What is balance? Balance is not a level or state. It is a lifestyle of being considerate and a culture of understanding the difference in the lives of individuals. It is not the function of equal strength but the wisdom of complimentary. Who is Balance? Balance is the reality of wisdom. How is balance in Nature? Balance is of two patterns Compatibility (Goals, purpose and vision) Complimentary (Investment) In compatibility, both parties in friendship or relationship must have a single defined goal, focus, vision or purpose. This is the place where Amos 3:3 becomes a lifestyle. The two must agree willingly without any act of manipulation or domineering attitude from the other party. In this place, is where terms must be defined, questions must be asked and sincerity must be in place. There is a need for you to observe the following questions; Who are you? What do you really want? Where are you going to in life? Is your destination defined by ...