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When Love Turns to Obligation

Love loses its sweetness when giving becomes duty instead of delight. What was once a joyful expression turns into a burden measured by effort and expectation. When love starts keeping score, the relationship shifts from joy to pressure — from connection to performance.

Many begin with pure hearts but allow expectations to replace affection. The more they demand, the less they enjoy. The relationship becomes a routine of responsibilities rather than a rhythm of joy. Love is never meant to be forced; it must flow freely from the heart.

When love feels like a job, pause and return to the posture of grace. Ask yourself, “Why did I start loving in the first place?” The answer will always lead you back to the joy of giving. Love finds its freedom again when it gives, not to earn appreciation, but to express devotion.

As the Word says, “Love… does not seek its own.” (1 Corinthians 13:5). True love doesn’t count what it gives; it delights in what it shares. Love thrives not in obligation but in overflow — when giving becomes an act of worship, not a weight of duty.

Prince Victor Matthew 

Hope Expression Values You 

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