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Keep Your Faith

It is natural for you to seek for approval, attention, listen ears, love and affection from people at this period of life but I do not want you to compromise your faith and trust in God in the process. Don’t sell your birthright. You are God’s kingdom, and you are Royal in Christ. Do not expect everybody to love or like you. You are the light of God to the world and darkness will surely hate you. Those God has set around you to listen, love and show affection to you will do that naturally. It is free, and you do not have to dress almost naked or abuse your priority just to fit into what people demands from you. You need to be yourself, be Godly, and be original in the area of God’s plan for your life. God’s people will love and respect you for who you truly are and even if you are not experiencing it presently, keep your faith in God and focus on God’s plan for your life. Value, respect, and celebrate yourself in your God. There is nothing wrong with you. Your height, your complexion,

How To Handle Break up - PART 1

Break up is not a negative experience....even thou many people have handled it through ignorance.Break up is a decision for your own safety. It is not a war, fight or opportunity to insult or despise any one. It does not mean you are superior or inferior. Its all about what can work and what can not work. Break up is you stopping any form of commitment to some one you have accepted for dating or Martial journey. This has to do with you avoiding any sense of commitment or loyalty to any relationship THAT IS NO LONGER BEFITTING YOUR PLANS AND NEEDS. Break up is you placing value on your self and future by putting a stop to your commitment to some whose association with you is no longer helping you to grow and improve. It is you avoiding this person you are dating simple because you no longer feed this persons need. This is you avoiding being committed to some one who no longer feed your own needs too.  Break up are of two kind. HEALTHY BREAK UP AND UNHEALTHY BREAK UP. Unhealthy break up

Love And Domestic Affairs

Men, learn how to wash plates, pots and arrange kitchen. Its not a ladies duty...its for humans. Ladies, don't let it be heard of you that what you dislike doing is washing plates, pots and arranging the kitchen. Drop this idea that when you get married you will get a house maid to do your works for you. LAZINESS IS WHEN YOU ALLOW OTHER PEOPLE TO DO FOR YOU WHAT ONLY YOU SHOULD DO FOR YOU.  Either you are a man or lady....learn to be domestically available and smart. Learn how to turn a house into a home! Its not a gender thing but its human.  Management is key...what can you manage? Whatsoever under your care should improve progressively.  A generation without laziness....let it begin with you....either you are a man or lady!!! Learn how to do house chores and learn how to be result or solution oriented in domestic affairs.  HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.

ARE YOU TIRED OF DATING?

Many people don't know what dating is all about simply because they just meant people doing some things and accepted it as a norm. What is dating? Dating is to under-study some one. Dating is to observe some one. Dating is seeking to understand how some one thinks and behaves. Dating is not a declaration of war!!! Dating is a mutual agreement of two people understudying each other.....to know and see if they can choose to advance into getting married (courtship). Dating is not the problem....how you date is the problem.  Dating is not a means to get problem solved but a mean to understudy some one....to understand what they can offer and what it takes to cope with them in future. It's not a do or die affair...but an understudy. The major reason why many youths failed is because they put in the kind of commitment meant for courtship stage for their dating stage. The level of commitment to dating is totally different from the commitment in courtship. Dating is observing, and unde

Avoid Regrets

Brothers, don't be deceived by the sight of seeing brothers or a particular brother around this lady you are interested in....even if she is dating some one....does not mean she is happy and satisfied in that relationship. Be your self and be friendly. Be truthful to her....you might be her reason to abandon that abusive relationship. Who knows🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️ Sisters, the fact that you see ladies or one particular lady around this brother does not mean they are dating. Even if they are dating it might be that he is not happy in that relationship. Be friendly and be your self. Be truthful to him....maybe you will be the very reason why he will decide to stop settling for less. Who knows 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️ Stop being reserved and distant from a guy or lady that is your talkmate or friend...all in the name he or she is dating some one. Know why you are in that persons life and stay where that place has placed you. You can still be useful to that lady or man dating some one else. Dat

Love Is A Spirit

Love is a spirit. Love is a nature. Love is thinking pattern. Love is an experience inwardly first before you share with people. Love is who you were born to become. Love is who you are in Christ!!!  Stop looking for love and accept Jesus as the personality and nature of love....only then will you become a distributor of love. HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.

PRAY

Irrespective of the relationship tips you have and many books you have read....if you don't prayerful lay the foundation of your relationship, it won't stand the test of time. Any emotional relationship with the absence of individual and collective prayer....will soon end in abuse. Let prayer be your lifestyle. Being prayerful is romantic too🤪🤪🤪 HOPE EXPRESSION celebrates you #Prince_Victor_Matthew.

Communication

The beauty of any relationship is COMMUNICATION. If you don't learn how to be expert in communicating your ideas and thoughts with people.....you won't enjoy help and intimacy. Communication is listening to the moods of people and understand the right time and approach to what you want to tell them. In communicating with people in relationship... Be specific.... Be detailed....Be determined....Be flexible. Relationship is not all about dating.... Family, Church, society and all affairs of life is under Relationship. Cultivating a healthy relationship begins with you having a healthy life. It is time for you to cultivate a healthy life through the understanding of Gods word. HOPE EXPRESSION celebrates you #Prince_Victor_Matthew #Hope_Expression_Family

Be Your Own Brand

Greed is the beginning of any abusive relationship and friendship. Embrace contentment....as you look up to God for provision in his due season. Be careful not to pull to your self....things or opportunities the Lord has not designed for you. Quit the pursuit of comparing and competing with people. Quit the pursuit of showing off on social media. Quit the pursuit of you trying to prove a point to your friends...you are on top of your game during this valentine season. This is your life and your business. Its not about what any body expects from you....its all about pleasing God in every way and in every day. I love you so much and God is committed to your lives. Keep looking unto Jesus and constantly depend on Him. HOPE EXPRESSION celebrates you. #2020_Serve_To_Love #Hope_Expression #Prince_Victor_Matthew #Baba_ Love