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Love Is Business Part 1

Relationship is and will always be a transaction of values, priority and needs. Your success is being able to sell what you enjoy selling and what this person will enjoy buying from you.

What are you selling is all about, your input or contribution to your present friendship, relationship or courtship.

What's the quality of your attitude, mindset and manner of approach, you are investing in the lives of the people around you?

Will you enjoy this lady or man treating you the same way you are treating him or her?

Will you enjoy this person talking to you in the same manner you are talking to him or her?

Its not about how committed you are this person, but as a man, is this what you promised her while asking her out? As a lady, is this what you promised him before you accepted him?

Ever since you stepped into this persons life, has things gone worst or best?

In what way have you being helping and supportive to this person?

Do your jokes respect this person or it abuses him or her?

Are you words salted with Gods Grace?

What are you selling?

The kind of spouse you need, is your present attitude and mentality fit to attract and retain that kind of man or lady you are praying to have?

The future you are praying for, how are you daily preparing for that future?

What are you selling?
Are you selling what you want them to get from you? Are you selling what you feel he or she should need? Are you selling what this person actually demanded before this relationship or friendship or courtship started?

Ladies, don't accept any thing from a man when you don't know what he wants from you. If he says I don't know, let him wait till he knows.

Men, don't choose a lady when you don't know her needs.

Its not about selling but as you selling what God wants or expects you to sell?

Are you compromising your faith, calling or vision just to be with some one in a relationship?

What are you selling....? If people should talk to you and treat you the way you talk and treat them, will you be fulfilled in this life, friendship, relationship or courtship?

Sell  to him or her what he or she demands and be expectant for her or him to sell to you what you demand.

Relationship is suppose to feed the individual needs of the two people involved.

Relationship is a transaction or business.

Identify your capital (Calling).

Work for the profit (support to your calling).

Be ready for the looses (Sacrifices).

Be set for bargaining (values and priorities).

*#Hope Expression*

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