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Mystery of Pet-Name In Relationship

You need to understand that pet-names are interesting and needed yet they are the strength of intimacy in relationship.

The pet-name is in practical terms that reveals how a partner sees his or her lover.

Whatsoever your lover, friend or family member calls you is a revealer of what they see in you, what they believe about you and WHAT THEY EXPECT FROM YOU.

Ladies, before you call him YOUR KING, be ready to submit to him, obey him and hold his suggestion in high esteem. You must treat him as a king.

My brother, before you call her YOUR TREASURE, be ready to value her, protect her and appreciate her in every thing.

Many people react in relationship not because they are tired but before of the way you treat them. If how you treat them is different from what you call them as pet-name, THERE IS NO TRUTH IN YOU.

Stop using pet-name to manipulate, impress, and compromise people. If you must call him or her by a pet-name, treat him or her that way. If you must accept to be called by that pet-name, be ready to live up to the expectation the pet-name will place on you.

The pet-name people call you is what they are expecting you to be to them.

If you are called my love, be ready to so loving all the time.
If you called my pride, make sure you won't let your attitude, choice of words and mindset bring Shame.

Pet-name is sweet but the reality of expectation and believe.

How can you call him or her your treasure when you treat him or her like trash?

How can you call him or her your baby, yet you don't nurture him or her and be gentle with him or her?

Reconsider your ways and reposition. Stop saying you don't why you are always having misunderstanding with your lover... Now you know. WHAT YOU CALL THEM AS PET-NAME IS NOT IN LINE WITH HOW YOU TALK AND TREAT THEM.

Grow up and improve your capacity. This is the mystery of pet-name in relationship.

Shalom!

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