Love with Understanding

don't love any one with your own idea.

Before you love some one, try your best to know and understand this person you want to love.

Loving some one is a waste of effort and sacrifice if you can't love this person according to their own uniqueness.

There is a difference between loving some one and the person feeling loved.

It's a waste of money buy a lion a swimming pool as a gift of love because by nature, lion don't swim.

it's a waste of money buying expensive shoes for a cow or a goat.

It's not about your effort, it's about understanding. Don't be surprised that your commitment, love, and honest attitude to some one can annoy the person and even make him or her run away from you.

Love but love with understanding. Know this person first and understand this person before you can learn how this kind of person ought to be loved.

Love without understanding is a waste of effort. Don't blame people for rejecting you because people don't always accept what they don't understand or some one that don't understand them.

Love is you and Christ in you is love manifested.

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Love with understanding!

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