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Love Is Order

I want you to understand that the   love that has no respect for values and priority is not matured. 

Do you respect people's value? 
Do you respect people's priority?  

Do you even have a priority and how committed are you to your priority and values? 

Is God's Word the Foundation of your priority and values? 

Love is not matured yet until values and priority are defined. 

Don't love as you please. Don't love without direction, specifications and pattern. 

MOST OF THE TIME IT IS NOT HOW MUCH YOU ARE WILLING TO LOVE SOME ONE - IT IS HOW YOU LOVE THAT PERSON. 

 *Before you love, ask questions and be sure you love according to the necessity of this person.* 

Necessity is the mother of love. 

Don't pity anyone. Don't manage to love. 

Love is not just emotions, attraction or feeling - love is a specific knowledge, specific understanding and specific wisdom about this person you want to love.  

 *How can you love who you don't know? How can you love who you don't understand? How can you love some one whose needs are unknown to you?* 

In all your loving, get understand, knowledge and wisdom. 

Love is specific and love has pattern. Love is not disorganised. 

Love is order! 

Place your love in order! 

Be encouraged 

#HopeExpression #PrinceVictorMatthew

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