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TRUE LOVE IS GIVING PEOPLE FREEDOM

Don't play the role of God in any ones life. Love is not a rescue mission and stop projecting your own insecurities on your loved ones IRRESPECTIVE OF YOUR GOOD INTENTION.

True love is giving people freedom to be who God wants them to be even if it won't suit your expectations. 

True love is allowing people to make mistakes without you coming to their rescue all the time. 

True love is releasing people from your expectations or desires concerning them. By Respecting and honouring whatsoever God wants to do in and through their life.

You can love people out of God's will. You can love people out of God's timing. You can love people out of the pattern God has designed for them. STOP PLAYING THE ROLE OF A GOD IN THE LIVES OF PEOPLE. You don't have to be in every of their story. You don't have to be part of every chapter of their life. If you were not available and supportive during this person's struggling session, don't ask for a seat at the table of their glory. 

Abuse is not verbal alone.. it's how we ignore people during their struggling season, but so quick to demand a seat at the table of their glory. Don't claim friendship or being siblings now that this person is winning, when you were practically absent when this person was struggling and building.

People don't change because they succeeded. They only recognize those that were part of their struggling and building stages. 

If you are currently absent from the struggling season of the people around you, don't be angry when they don't invite you to their table of celebration tomorrow.

LIFE HAS CONSEQUENCES AND APOLOGIZING WON'T ERASE IT. YOU CAN BE FORGIVEN BUT CONSEQUENCES MUST BE SERVED. 

BE WARNED. 

Hope Expression Values You 
Apostle Prince Victor Matthew

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