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Your Fight is Personal; Be Better than your Parents

- You can be a great father to your children and fail as a husband to your wife.
- You can be a great husband to your wife and fail as a father to your children 
- You can be a great wife to your husband and fail as a mother to your children. 
- You can be a great mother to your children and fail as a wife to your husband. 
- You can be a great ministers of God, or business person and fail in your marriage. 

THE END GOAL OF ALL THESE IS BE THE BEST IN ALL FACE OF LIFE.

Growing up in life you might have experienced one of these below
- You either had a loving father but had a mother that doesn't care about you. 
- You either had a loving mother but had a father that doesn't care about you. 
- You either had an absent father or absent mother or absent parents. 

NEVER JUDGE YOUR PARENTS BECAUSE YOU DONT HAVE THE FULL STORY OF WHAT HAPPENED TO THEM... Many parents suffered emotional Trauma and fights beyond their control...children don't have a clue about till date.

Irrespective of how you see your mom or dad - any negative you saw and experienced from them are WISDOM OF THE KIND OF PERSON NOT TO BECOME. The godly examples are WISDOM YOU MUST BUILD ON TO BECOME A BETTER VERSION OF THEM. 

The weaknesses of your parents are not your prophecy and the strength of your parents are not the highest peak to stop... You can become more excellent and a better version of their highest peak of success.

A healthy relationship is a decision and a choice!! 

- Let's be a better version of what we grew up witnessing. 
- Don't just prepare for marriage... Prepare to be the best version of your self as a wife and mother... As the best version of your self as a husband and father. 
- If you think your dad is better than your mum or your mum is better than your dad... You have being deceived. THE SAME BATTLE THAT FOUGHT EITHER YOUR DAD OR MUM THAT MADE THEM LOOK LIKE THEY FAILED YOU IS WAITING FOR YOU IN FUTURE.... There are lots of things only adulthood can tell you, teach you, and reveal to you.

So, seek to see your parents flaws as classroom AND MAKE SURE YOU DONT BECOME WHAT YOU ARE CURRENTLY HATING THEM FOR.... don't just say God forbid.... THE BATTLE IS ALREADY IN YOUR BLOOD.

Turn your parents to classrooms... Understudy their flaws, their conflicts, their success, their limitations and opportunities ---- THEN USE YOUR FINDING TO MAP YOUR SELF DEVELOPMENT.. WHAT TO ALLOW AND WHAT TO REJECT...... For every generation will always repeat the life test the past generation failed to pass. 

Most relationship problem is the battle in your bloodstream or your lineage. STUDY YOUR ROOT... search your family history and understand what you are dealing with.

Men are not your problem. 
Ladies are not your problem. 
Your husband is not the problem. 
Your wife is not the problem. 

The problem is IN YOUR BLOOD AND IN YOUR LINEAGE. 

Fight with understanding. 
Prayer with clarity. 
Engage life and relationship with perception. 
Your fight is personal so stop comparing yourself with friends and society.

I hope you have gotten value for your time? 
Hope Expression Values You
Apostle Prince Victor Matthew 

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