Rejection is something you’ve faced before, right? Whether in friendships, dating, marriage, or even at work, it stings. But here’s the truth you may not want to hear: not every rejection you experienced was a blessing in disguise. Sometimes, you were rejected not because God was protecting you, but because of your attitude. Maybe you were insensitive, inconsiderate, proud, or you refused to admit your fault and apologize. If you treat people like they don’t matter, don’t expect them to keep you close. Remember Proverbs 16:18 says, “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” On the other hand, some rejections in your life are truly blessings. When people reject you because you love Jesus, because you refuse to compromise your faith, or because you chose integrity over sin, that kind of rejection is honorable. Jesus said in Matthew 5:11, “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me.” That’s th...

Love, in its purest form, never fails. The Bible even confirms this in 1 Corinthians 13:8. Love is designed to last, to endure storms, and to bring healing and wholeness. Yet, many relationships break not because love has lost its power, but because people have failed to nurture it. When we ignore the small details—like listening, understanding, and showing consistent care—we create cracks that can grow into chasms. Love thrives on attention; neglect starves it. Another reason relationships fail is the lack of foresight. Many people enter love blinded by emotions without preparing for the reality that life will test their commitment. They do not consider the sacrifices, patience, and adaptability love requires. Foresight means asking yourself, “Am I willing to grow through the hard times? Am I prepared to choose this person daily even when it is not convenient?” Love is not a fantasy; it is a responsibility. Greed also sabotages love. When one or both partners prioritize self-interest ...

In every premarital relationship, one of the clearest signs that you are emotionally and spiritually ready is your ability to take responsibility for your actions. Self-responsibility is not just a sign of maturity; it is proof that you are willing to grow, learn, and protect what matters to you. As a youth preparing for a future in marriage, this is not the time to always look for who to blame or pretend you're always right. This is the time to develop character and humility. When you constantly shift blame to your partner or become defensive each time correction or misunderstanding arises, you are indirectly saying, “I am not ready for commitment.” Love may bring two people together, but maturity keeps them growing together. A relationship where no one takes responsibility becomes toxic, exhausting, and frustrating. Can you imagine trying to build something meaningful with someone who never admits their wrong? That’s not love. That’s pride in disguise. Many young people think lov...