Skip to main content

LOVE IS A LIFESTYLE

Love, in its purest form, never fails. The Bible even confirms this in 1 Corinthians 13:8. Love is designed to last, to endure storms, and to bring healing and wholeness. Yet, many relationships break not because love has lost its power, but because people have failed to nurture it. When we ignore the small details—like listening, understanding, and showing consistent care—we create cracks that can grow into chasms. Love thrives on attention; neglect starves it.

Another reason relationships fail is the lack of foresight. Many people enter love blinded by emotions without preparing for the reality that life will test their commitment. They do not consider the sacrifices, patience, and adaptability love requires. Foresight means asking yourself, “Am I willing to grow through the hard times? Am I prepared to choose this person daily even when it is not convenient?” Love is not a fantasy; it is a responsibility.

Greed also sabotages love. When one or both partners prioritize self-interest over mutual benefit, love suffers. Greed manifests in subtle ways—demanding without giving, expecting perfection without grace, or seeking personal gain at the expense of the relationship. True love is not selfish; it considers the other person and works toward shared progress. When greed takes over, love becomes conditional, and that is when the foundation begins to crumble.

So, when a relationship fails, let us not blame love. Love is perfect in design, but people often mishandle it. If you truly want love to last, give attention to the little things, prepare for the future with wisdom, and put away selfish desires. Remember, love is not magic; it is a daily choice to act with commitment, humility, and grace.

Assessment Questions

1. What practical steps can you take this week to pay more attention to the details in your relationships?


2. In what ways can you practice selflessness to protect love from being corrupted by greed?

Hope Expression Values You 

Prince Victor Matthew 


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

The Power of Communication in Building a Purposeful Relationship

Dear friend, the strength of any relationship lies in its foundation of effective communication. Without it, misunderstandings arise, assumptions take root, and frustrations build. Amos 3:3 asks, “Can two walk together unless they are agreed?” Agreement comes through understanding, and understanding is achieved when both parties communicate openly and honestly about their values, priorities, and needs. A relationship cannot thrive if silence, guesswork, or avoidance replace meaningful conversations. Your dating relationship is a time to discover the person you’re with and assess compatibility. This goes beyond surface-level interests; it requires delving into each other’s purpose and calling. Proverbs 4:7 teaches, “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.” Understanding your partner's direction in life allows you to align your steps intentionally. Communication is not just about talking; it’s about listening, empat...
Post a Comment
Read more

ARE YOU READY FOR PREMARITAL RELATIONSHIP?

In every premarital relationship, one of the clearest signs that you are emotionally and spiritually ready is your ability to take responsibility for your actions. Self-responsibility is not just a sign of maturity; it is proof that you are willing to grow, learn, and protect what matters to you. As a youth preparing for a future in marriage, this is not the time to always look for who to blame or pretend you're always right. This is the time to develop character and humility. When you constantly shift blame to your partner or become defensive each time correction or misunderstanding arises, you are indirectly saying, “I am not ready for commitment.” Love may bring two people together, but maturity keeps them growing together. A relationship where no one takes responsibility becomes toxic, exhausting, and frustrating. Can you imagine trying to build something meaningful with someone who never admits their wrong? That’s not love. That’s pride in disguise. Many young people think lov...
Post a Comment
Read more

How to Stop Settling for Less in Dating Relationship - Part 6 (Final Part)

In the world of relationships, it’s easy to focus on whether we’re settling for less, but what about the other side of the coin? As Christian youths, we must also consider whether we’re unintentionally causing someone else to settle for less by dating us. Relationships are meant to be mutual, uplifting, and Christ-centered. If we’re not careful, our actions, words, or even our approach to dating could cause someone else to compromise their values or settle for something less than God’s best. Here’s how you can avoid putting someone in that position. First, it’s important to be honest with yourself about your intentions. Before you enter into a relationship, ask yourself why you want to date this person. Are you genuinely interested in them, or are you just trying to fill a void, combat loneliness, or conform to societal pressure? If your motivations aren’t pure, you might end up leading someone on, making them believe the relationship has more potential than it actually does. Pray for ...
Post a Comment
Read more