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LOVE IS A LIFESTYLE

Love, in its purest form, never fails. The Bible even confirms this in 1 Corinthians 13:8. Love is designed to last, to endure storms, and to bring healing and wholeness. Yet, many relationships break not because love has lost its power, but because people have failed to nurture it. When we ignore the small details—like listening, understanding, and showing consistent care—we create cracks that can grow into chasms. Love thrives on attention; neglect starves it.

Another reason relationships fail is the lack of foresight. Many people enter love blinded by emotions without preparing for the reality that life will test their commitment. They do not consider the sacrifices, patience, and adaptability love requires. Foresight means asking yourself, “Am I willing to grow through the hard times? Am I prepared to choose this person daily even when it is not convenient?” Love is not a fantasy; it is a responsibility.

Greed also sabotages love. When one or both partners prioritize self-interest over mutual benefit, love suffers. Greed manifests in subtle ways—demanding without giving, expecting perfection without grace, or seeking personal gain at the expense of the relationship. True love is not selfish; it considers the other person and works toward shared progress. When greed takes over, love becomes conditional, and that is when the foundation begins to crumble.

So, when a relationship fails, let us not blame love. Love is perfect in design, but people often mishandle it. If you truly want love to last, give attention to the little things, prepare for the future with wisdom, and put away selfish desires. Remember, love is not magic; it is a daily choice to act with commitment, humility, and grace.

Assessment Questions

1. What practical steps can you take this week to pay more attention to the details in your relationships?


2. In what ways can you practice selflessness to protect love from being corrupted by greed?

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