Break up is not a negative experience....even thou many people have handled it through ignorance.Break up is a decision for your own safety. It is not a war, fight or opportunity to insult or despise any one. It does not mean you are superior or inferior. Its all about what can work and what can not work. Break up is you stopping any form of commitment to some one you have accepted for dating or Martial journey. This has to do with you avoiding any sense of commitment or loyalty to any relationship THAT IS NO LONGER BEFITTING YOUR PLANS AND NEEDS. Break up is you placing value on your self and future by putting a stop to your commitment to some whose association with you is no longer helping you to grow and improve. It is you avoiding this person you are dating simple because you no longer feed this persons need. This is you avoiding being committed to some one who no longer feed your own needs too.  Break up are of two kind. HEALTHY BREAK UP AND UNHEALTHY BREAK UP. Unhealthy break up

Men, learn how to wash plates, pots and arrange kitchen. Its not a ladies duty...its for humans. Ladies, don't let it be heard of you that what you dislike doing is washing plates, pots and arranging the kitchen. Drop this idea that when you get married you will get a house maid to do your works for you. LAZINESS IS WHEN YOU ALLOW OTHER PEOPLE TO DO FOR YOU WHAT ONLY YOU SHOULD DO FOR YOU.  Either you are a man or lady....learn to be domestically available and smart. Learn how to turn a house into a home! Its not a gender thing but its human.  Management is key...what can you manage? Whatsoever under your care should improve progressively.  A generation without laziness....let it begin with you....either you are a man or lady!!! Learn how to do house chores and learn how to be result or solution oriented in domestic affairs.  HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.

Many people don't know what dating is all about simply because they just meant people doing some things and accepted it as a norm. What is dating? Dating is to under-study some one. Dating is to observe some one. Dating is seeking to understand how some one thinks and behaves. Dating is not a declaration of war!!! Dating is a mutual agreement of two people understudying each other.....to know and see if they can choose to advance into getting married (courtship). Dating is not the problem....how you date is the problem.  Dating is not a means to get problem solved but a mean to understudy some one....to understand what they can offer and what it takes to cope with them in future. It's not a do or die affair...but an understudy. The major reason why many youths failed is because they put in the kind of commitment meant for courtship stage for their dating stage. The level of commitment to dating is totally different from the commitment in courtship. Dating is observing, and unde

Brothers, don't be deceived by the sight of seeing brothers or a particular brother around this lady you are interested in....even if she is dating some one....does not mean she is happy and satisfied in that relationship. Be your self and be friendly. Be truthful to her....you might be her reason to abandon that abusive relationship. Who knows🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️ Sisters, the fact that you see ladies or one particular lady around this brother does not mean they are dating. Even if they are dating it might be that he is not happy in that relationship. Be friendly and be your self. Be truthful to him....maybe you will be the very reason why he will decide to stop settling for less. Who knows 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️ Stop being reserved and distant from a guy or lady that is your talkmate or friend...all in the name he or she is dating some one. Know why you are in that persons life and stay where that place has placed you. You can still be useful to that lady or man dating some one else. Dat

Love is a spirit. Love is a nature. Love is thinking pattern. Love is an experience inwardly first before you share with people. Love is who you were born to become. Love is who you are in Christ!!!  Stop looking for love and accept Jesus as the personality and nature of love....only then will you become a distributor of love. HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.