God created humans as relating agents...even parents train but not fixing... Machines are what we fix..not human. God alone is the only one that can help fix whatsoever is wrong with any one in his or her life. Don't put the law into your hand to fix people. You suggest correction and speak the truth firmly. But it doesn't mean you make yourself a God over people. If you see any fault in people, talk to them about it... and even if you discover you can help them....suggest your idea to help them to them... With their permission, you can then offer the help they are willing to accept. If you correct some one and its clear the person doesn't even admit he or she is wrong... Pray for God to open their eyes... If this person's fault has a direct effect on you, or your happiness.... Give some distance and pray for his or her change. Don't submit your self to be a victim to some one that is constantly abusing... Don't judge or condemn the person either. Suggest

Relationship and life is a transaction. You must embrace it with transaction mentality. What is the need of staying in friendship or relationship of a month and you can't point one Godly thing you have gained....? WHAT ARE YOU BUYING? What you are buying are the things you allow people to say and do to you. Any friendship or relationship without a define goal or objective is unhealthy. Check the way he or she talks to you, is that what you bargained for before this friendship or relationship started? If some one is selling some thing you didn't bargained for, call him or her to order.....and remind him or her the agreed defined terms before the friendship or relationship started. If they are unwilling to supply what you want to buy, CHANGE THE SUPPLY. How can you be in relationship yet in silent pain? You can't joke, smiles and laugh with some one you call a friend or dating? What are you buying in this friendship or relationship or courtship? Is this what you bar

Relationship is and will always be a transaction of values, priority and needs. Your success is being able to sell what you enjoy selling and what this person will enjoy buying from you. What are you selling is all about, your input or contribution to your present friendship, relationship or courtship. What's the quality of your attitude, mindset and manner of approach, you are investing in the lives of the people around you? Will you enjoy this lady or man treating you the same way you are treating him or her? Will you enjoy this person talking to you in the same manner you are talking to him or her? Its not about how committed you are this person, but as a man, is this what you promised her while asking her out? As a lady, is this what you promised him before you accepted him? Ever since you stepped into this persons life, has things gone worst or best? In what way have you being helping and supportive to this person? Do your jokes respect this person or it abuses him or

You need to understand that pet-names are interesting and needed yet they are the strength of intimacy in relationship. The pet-name is in practical terms that reveals how a partner sees his or her lover. Whatsoever your lover, friend or family member calls you is a revealer of what they see in you, what they believe about you and WHAT THEY EXPECT FROM YOU. Ladies, before you call him YOUR KING, be ready to submit to him, obey him and hold his suggestion in high esteem. You must treat him as a king. My brother, before you call her YOUR TREASURE, be ready to value her, protect her and appreciate her in every thing. Many people react in relationship not because they are tired but before of the way you treat them. If how you treat them is different from what you call them as pet-name, THERE IS NO TRUTH IN YOU. Stop using pet-name to manipulate, impress, and compromise people. If you must call him or her by a pet-name, treat him or her that way. If you must accept to be called by t

I want you to know that whatsoever you can't say in front of some one, you should not say it behind their back. It's called verbal murderer. Let your words be filled with sweetness. Don't be that person that will kill the opportunity of that person simply because his or success makes you feel insecure. Let's be our brothers and sisters defense. You are accountable to God how you talk and treat people or even think about people both in the secret and in the open. Let your mouth lift people and don't let it pull them down. Allow your words to encourage people, don't discourage people with your words. Allow your words to inspire people to be the best God has created them to be and don't despise people with your words. This is the will of God for you. Be encouraged! #HopeExpression Prince Victor Matthew +2348139635230