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Love, Plans and Goals

Love is more than a word, love is a lifestyle and a specific kind of mindset. Love must be defined with specification, time and detail. Any relationship of any kind that is undefined is not a healthy relationship.

Any friendship or relationship must have a short term goal and a long term goal. Success or failure in any friendship or relationship is predictable. When you fail to sit, consider and plan - you are setting your self up for failure. You are the factor that makes any friendship or relationship healthy. For you to have a plan and goal for the friendship or relationship in your life, you must have a personal goal and plan for your self.

When you are confused as an individual, even if you are a friend with an Angel or dating an Angel - you will end up frustrating the Angel. Do you have a clear picture of the direction of your life? The picture you have about the direction of your life must be a knowledge you have discovered about your personal walk with the Lord.

The plan of God is the greatest obstacle to some youths and teenagers in the area of friendship and relationship. When you choose a path that's not in agreement with the path God has set for you - God's love will become your obstacle because God's love will always make sure your strength fails you. This is not wickedness but remember, JESUS IS YOUR LORD!

In your friendship and relationship, are you on the path of God's plan for your life? Are you the god over your own life? Have you found from God's word, the plan for your direction in life? Do you know God's intention for the friendship and relationship surrounding you? You belong to God and God is so concern about every tiny detail of the friendship and relationship you keep. It's time to define your self with God's word. It's time to define your friendship and relationship with God's word. YOUR LIFE IS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU. Your life is meant to give God pleasure. HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP AND FRIENDSHIP ARE THE TYPE WHERE PLEASING THE LORD IS A MUST.

God is love and Christ in you is Love Manifested.

Jesus loves you so much! 

Yours Sincerely,

Prince Victor Matthew

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