Don't believe this lies - Your virginity is your most important quality, anything less is undesirable. I’ll never forget the look on her face as she shared the story of her dark sexual past, with tears welling up in her eyes. But the ironic thing is, she was less concerned with what she had done- for she knew God had forgiven her of her past and wiped it clean- and more concerned with what they would think of her. What if her church friends knew? Could she ever find someone to love her? Did she even deserve that kind of love? Having recently been saved, God had pulled her out of the trenches of sexual addiction and transformed her into the start of a new life. But she found herself feeling confused. The same people that preached grace and God’s forgiveness, seemed to continuously remind her of her dark past. She had recently heard in church that when you give yourself away sexually, you have given away a piece of your heart that you could never get back. If tha

This CAGE operates in different pattern. Here are the following patterns that I know. THE FEAR OF FAILURE. Most of the time, this CAGE gets hold of our emotions because we don’t involve God in every detail that surround our emotions. Most of the time, we are afraid of relationship and dating because we have choose to believe what the society, friends and people are saying more than what the word of God has to say. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and don’t depend on your own understanding. Your fears are real but you can turn them into prayer points and you can still ask the Holy Spirit how to go about it. Always remember this ‘the righteousness shall fall seven times and rise again.’ The greatest danger is not in your ability to fail – the greatest danger is in your inability to learn when you fail. Be led by the Holy Spirit and get instructions from Him and if you fail in the process of obeying God, learn from your mistakes and move again. Dare to believe God